新概念雙語：戒去這十條陋習(xí)助你擺脫困境

1. Remarkable people give up playing it safe.

1. 杰出人士行事不會大保險球。

No one has ever achieved greatness by playing it safe. And ironically, in this very rapidly changing world, playing it safe is one of the riskiest things you can do. To get back on track means being brave and fearless, because playing it safe is deciding you don't want to grow anymore.

行事講究萬全之人難以創(chuàng)造偉大。而且諷刺的是，在這個瞬息萬變的世界，小心謹慎、不敢冒險可算是一件最為冒險的事。東山再起意味著勇敢無畏，因為謹慎得不敢冒險正表現(xiàn)出你決定不再有任何成長。

2. Remarkable people give up self-doubt.

2. 杰出人士不會自我懷疑。

The truth, of course, is that everyone experiences self-doubt at times. But you can't allow your doubt to keep you stuck. Remind yourself of how far you've come, remember everything you've been through and had to face, think about the battles you've won and all the fears you've overcome. Don't give doubt room to take hold.

當(dāng)然事實是，每個人都有懷疑自我的時候，可是你不能深陷自我懷疑而止步不前。提醒你自己在人生之路上已經(jīng)走了多遠，記住所有你經(jīng)歷過、需要面對的事，想一想你贏得的人生戰(zhàn)役以及你克服了的所有恐懼。不要給自我懷疑留有空間。

3. Remarkable people give up being baffled.

3. 杰出人士不讓自己迷茫。

When things don't work out and when they go wrong, it's because there is something for you to learn. But you can't learn if you're stuck trying the same thing over and over. Break free and approach problems from a different direction.

當(dāng)事情進展不順利、出現(xiàn)問題時，這是因為你需要學(xué)習(xí)。但如果你一直在做同樣的事情，那你不可能學(xué)到任何東西。掙脫束縛，從新的視角來解決問題。

4. Remarkable people give up self-judgment.

4. 杰出人士不會對自己苛責(zé)。

Judging anyone harshly--especially yourself--is never useful, and being overly critical is never productive. If you feel like everyone else is judging you, ask yourself if you're really hearing your own voice. Treat yourself with the compassion and care you'd give to someone else.

嚴厲審視他人，尤其是如此對你自己，是沒有用處的。而且太過苛刻從不會帶來多大成效。如果你感覺其他所有人都在評判你，那么捫心自問你是否真的在聽從心聲。用你會給予他人的寬容和關(guān)懷對待自己。

5. Remarkable people give up disillusionment.

5. 杰出人士不會自我麻痹。

Nothing worthwhile is easy; the most difficult challenges are often the most rewarding and satisfying.

毫無意義的事容易完成，而最難克服的挑戰(zhàn)總是那些回報最高、最令人滿意的事。

6. Remarkable people give up being controlled by others.

6. 杰出人士不會受他人控制。

It might be tempting to let others make decisions for you, especially when you feel off track, but if anything, that creates even bigger problems. Tap into your own passion to move beyond the obstacles in your way.

也許讓他人幫你做決定很誘人，尤其是在你覺得事情超出自己把控時。可是如果這樣做，這甚至將給你帶來更大的問題。匯集自身的熱情來跨越阻擋你的障礙。

7. Remarkable people give up being stuck.

7. 杰出人士不會一根筋。

Letting go does not mean giving up but accepting there are things in life that should not be. Letting go is often what it takes to become stronger, happier, and more successful in the long run.

放手不意味著放棄，而是承認有些事是其生命中不該有的。就長期而言，放手總是讓人變得更堅強、快樂，并取得更大的成功。

8. Remarkable people give up being derailed.

8. 杰出人士不會受外界阻撓。

Try to focus on what you are aiming at instead of what is derailing you.

試著關(guān)注你的目標(biāo)，而非那些會阻礙你的事。

9. Remarkable people give up negativity.

9. 杰出人士不會消極待事。

Positive thinking isn't about expecting the best thing to happen every time; it's about accepting that whatever happens is good for the moment and then making the best of it. Be positive and give up focusing on what is negative.

思想積極不是期待每次事情都有最美滿的結(jié)局。它是指無論發(fā)生什么都坦然接受，認為其對那一時刻有益，并使之發(fā)揮最大效益。積極向上，別只在意消極的一面。

10. Remarkable people give up being perfect.

10. 杰出人士不追求極致完美。

Know that we all have two choices: Either we do nothing and give into procrastination, or we start chasing our dreams, our visions, our ideas. Begin by doing something, don't wait for perfect. Even if it's not exactly the right direction, just get up and start moving.

我們要知曉所有人都有兩種選擇——要么無所事事、拖拖拉拉;要么開始追逐我們的夢想，努力實現(xiàn)我們心中的愿景與想法。開始動手去做吧，別想著事事完美。即使你選擇的方向不對，也要站起來，開始行動。