新概念雙語：職場勵志語錄50句：找到自信的自己

I know a few extremely confident--not cocky， confident--people. (Here‘s how you can tell if someone is genuinely confident) It’s as if they were born that way.

我認識一些十分自信的人——不是那種傲慢的自信。(以下內(nèi)容告訴你如何判斷一個人是否是真的自信的方法)他們的自信好像生來如此。

The rest of us sometimes lack confidence--and we often lack belief in ourselves when we need it most.

大部分人時常缺乏自信——我們經(jīng)常在急需自信的時候選擇了不相信自己。

Fortunately， self-confidence is a quality you can develop。 Anyone can be more confident. (Even me.)

幸運的是，自信是可以培養(yǎng)的。每個人都可以變得自信(甚至是我)。

But building self-confidence takes time. So if you need a quick shot of it， here are some great motivational quotes that will inspire you to feel more self-assured：

不過建立自信是需要時間的。所以如果你想快速掌握自信的訣竅，以下這些鼓舞人心的語錄可以幫助你感到更自信：

1“When you‘re different， sometimes you don’t see the millions of people who accept you for what you are. All you notice is the person who doesn‘t.” --Jodi Picoult

1“當你與別人不同時，無需理會所有反對你的人。你只需知道總有人在支持你。”——朱迪·皮考特

2“As soon as you trust yourself， you will know how to live.” --Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

2“只要相信自己，你就會知道如何活。”——約翰·沃爾夫?qū)?middot;馮·歌德

3“You cannot be lonely if you like the person you‘re alone with.” --Wayne Dyer

3“學會獨處，你就絕不會孤獨。”——韋恩·戴爾

4“Just pick a goal， a goal you truly want to achieve， and take a clear-eyed look at your weaknesses--not so you‘ll feel less confident， but so you can determine exactly what you need to work on. Then get to work. Celebrate small successes. Analyze your weaknesses. Keep going. As you gain skill， you’ll also gain a feeling of genuine confidence， one that can never be taken away--because you‘ve earned it.” (OK， that one is mine， he said， blushing.)

4“選一個目標，一個你真正想要實現(xiàn)的目標，然后認清你的弱點——這樣并不是為了讓你感到更不自信，而是為了讓你明確自己應該朝哪個方向走。然后努力提升。要慶祝成果，也要分析弱點。繼續(xù)努力。當你掌握了技能后，你也會獲得真實的自信感，一種不會消失的自信感——那是因為這是你應得的。”(好吧，這句話是我自己說的)

5“Don‘t waste your energy trying to change opinions ... do your thing， and don’t care if they like it.” --Tina Fey

5“別浪費時間去讓別人改變想法…做好你自己的事，別理會別人會不會喜歡。”——蒂娜·菲

6“Pride is holding your head up when everyone around you has theirs bowed。 Courage is what makes you do it.” --Bryce Courtenay

6“當周圍的人都向你鞠躬時，讓你昂首挺胸的是榮耀。而讓你獲得榮耀的是勇氣。”——布萊斯·考特尼

7“The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear and get a record of successful experiences behind you.” --William Jennings Bryan

7“獲得自信的方法就是去做你害怕的事，然后把每一次的成功都記錄下來。” ——威廉·詹寧斯·布賴恩

8“If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint，’ then by all means paint， and that voice will be silenced.” --Vincent van Gogh

8“當你聽到有一個聲音在告訴你‘你畫不出來，’的時候，一定要繼續(xù)畫下去，那個聲音會停下來的。”——文森特·梵高

9“Always be yourself and have faith in yourself. Do not go out and look for a successful personality and try to duplicate it.” --Bruce Lee

9“做自己，相信自己。不要去試圖模仿別人的成功。”——李小龍

10“Don‘t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges， obstacles， and less than perfect conditions。 So what? Get started now. With each step you take， you will grow stronger and stronger， more and more skilled， more and more self-confident， and more and more successful.” --Mark Victor Hansen

10“不要去等柳暗花明。沒有那么完美的事。路途總有挑戰(zhàn)，坎坷，通途很少。那又怎樣?現(xiàn)在就開始行動。每走一步，你會便得越來越強大，越來越熟練，越來越自信，越來越成功。” --馬克·維克多·漢森

11“You wouldn‘t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” --Eleanor Roosevelt

11“你不必擔心別人如何看你，因為他們沒時間想這些。”——埃莉諾·羅斯福

12“Low self-confidence isn‘t a life sentence. Self-confidence can be learned， practiced， and mastered--just like any other skill. Once you master it， everything in your life will change for the better.” --Barrie Davenport

12“沒自信不應是生活的語錄。 自信是可以學習，鍛煉，和掌握的——就和別的技能一樣。一旦你掌握了這個技能，你的人生會更好。” ——芭莉·戴芬波特

13“Once we believe in ourselves， we can risk curiosity， wonder， spontaneous delight， or any experience that reveals the human spirit.” --E.E. Cummings

13“相信自己，我們就能夠有勇氣去踐行我們的好奇，想法，油然而生的喜悅，或是那些展現(xiàn)人類精神的體驗。——愛德華·埃斯特林·卡明斯

14“Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny， inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.”--Golda Meir

14“相信自己。做自己想要成為的人。讓小火花變成大火焰， 努力成就你自己。”——果爾達·梅厄

15“One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.” --Arthur Ashe

15“通往成功的關鍵是自信。而自信的關鍵是準備。” ——亞瑟·阿什

16“It is confidence in our bodies， minds， and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures.” --Oprah Winfrey

16“當我們的身體，思維，精神都充滿自信，我們才能夠不斷踏上新的征途。” ——奧普拉·溫弗瑞

17“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” --Ralph Waldo Emerson

17“在一個不斷改變你的世界里坐你自己是意見很偉大的成就。” ——拉爾夫·瓦爾多·愛默生

18“But failure has to be an option in art and in exploration--because it‘s a leap of faith. And no important endeavor that required innovation was done without risk. You have to be willing to take those risks.” --James Cameron

18“可是失敗不論在藝術還是探索中都是無法避免的選項——因為你得放手一搏。任何為創(chuàng)新所付出的努力都會有失敗的風險。你得愿意承擔這些風險。” ——詹姆斯·卡梅隆

19“People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out， but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within.” --Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

19“人們都喜歡彩繪花窗。太陽出來時，花窗閃耀著光芒，但是黑暗來臨時，只有花窗內(nèi)的光芒才能展示他真正的美麗。” ——伊麗莎白·庫伯勒·羅斯

20“Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.” --Peter T. McIntyre

20“自信并不是來自于永遠正確，而是來自于不怕犯錯。”——彼得·麥金泰爾

21“Argue for your limitations and， sure enough， they‘re yours.” --Richard Bach

21“為自己的弱點和別人爭辯，你必須明確弱點是你的。” ——理查德·巴赫

22“The courage to be is the courage to accept oneself， in spite of being unacceptable.” --Paul Tillich

22“勇氣是指能夠接受自己的勇氣，并非排斥自己。”——保羅·田立克

23“If we all did the things we are capable of doing， we would literally astound ourselves.” --Thomas Alva Edison

23“如果我們所有人都在做我們都會做的事情，我們一定會把自己嚇到。” ——托馬斯·阿爾瓦·愛迪生

24“Shyness has a strange element of narcissism， a belief that how we look， how we perform， is truly important to other people.” --Andre Dubus

24“害羞中有一種奇怪的自戀因素， 相信我們的外表，相信我們的表現(xiàn)才是別人真正關注所在。”——安德烈·迪比

25“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light， not our darkness， that most frightens us. We ask ourselves， ‘Who am I to be brilliant， gorgeous， talented， fabulous?’ Actually， who are you not to be?” --Marianne Williamson

25“我們內(nèi)心深處的恐懼不是來自于我們能力不夠。我們最深的恐懼是來自于我們擁有不可估量的權利。讓我們恐懼的不是我們的黑暗，而是我們的光芒。我們問自己，‘在成為聰明，有魅力，有才華，出彩的人時，我是誰?’事實上，應該問當我們什么都沒有的時候，我們是誰?——瑪麗安娜·威廉森

26“Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love.” --Brené Brown

26“和你自己說話，就要像和你最愛的人說活一樣。”——布琳·布朗

27“Trust yourself。 You know more than you think you do.” --Dr. Benjamin Spock

27“相信自己。你比你想象中的自己更強。”——本杰明·斯伯克醫(yī)生

28“Successful people have fear， successful people have doubts， and successful people have worries. They just don‘t let these feelings stop them。” --T. Harv Eker

28“成功人士會害怕，會質(zhì)疑，會擔憂。但是他們不會讓這些感覺阻止他們的步伐。”——T。哈維·埃克

29“You can have anything you want if you are willing to give up the belief that you can‘t have it.” --Dr. Robert Anthony

29“如果你拋開你無法做到這樣的想法，你就能擁有一切。”——羅伯特·安東尼博士

30“It is not the mountain we conquer， but ourselves.” --Sir Edmund Hillary

30“我們要征服的不是高山，而是我們自己。”——希拉里爵士

31“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.” --Oscar Wilde

31“愛自己是浪漫一生的開始。”——奧斯卡·王爾德

32“I had to grow to love my body. I did not have a good self-image at first. Finally it occurred to me， I‘m either going to love me or hate me. And I chose to love myself. Then everything kind of sprung from there. Things that I thought weren’t attractive became sexy. Confidence makes you sexy.” --Queen Latifah

32“我慢慢開始愛我自己。一開始我并沒有清楚的認識自己。最后我發(fā)現(xiàn)我會一邊愛自己，一邊討厭自己。我選擇了愛自己。接著一切都發(fā)生了改變。我認為并不具有吸引力的事情也開始變得很迷人。自信讓你變得迷人。”——奎因·萊提法

33“You yourself， as much as anyone in the entire universe， deserve your love and affection.” –Buddha

33“你，和宇宙中的蕓蕓眾生一樣，值得被愛。”——釋迦牟尼

34“Inaction breeds doubt and fear。 Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear， do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” --Dale Carnegie

34“被動滋生疑慮和恐懼。主動助長自信和勇氣。如果你想要戰(zhàn)勝恐懼，就不要坐在家里幻想。走出門，忙起來。”——戴爾·卡耐基

35“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” --Helen Keller

35“樂觀是能夠引導你成功的信念。無望和自卑讓你一事無成。”——海倫·凱勒

36“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.” --Thomas Jefferson

36“只要思想態(tài)度端正，沒有什么能夠阻擋你成功的步伐;一旦思想態(tài)度不端正，一切都無用。”——托馬斯·杰斐遜

37“Confidence is a habit that can be developed by acting as if you already had the confidence you desire to have.” --Brian Tracy

37“只要裝得你很有你想要的信心，就能培養(yǎng)出自信。”——博恩·崔西

38“When I started counting my blessings， my whole life turned around.” --Willie Nelson

38“當我開始感恩時，我的一生都發(fā)生了變化。”——威利·納爾遜

39“If you are insecure， guess what? The rest of the world is too. Do not overestimate the competition and underestimate yourself. You are better than you think.” --T. Harv Eker

39“你沒有安全感，其實世界上所有的人都一樣么有安全感。不要高估比賽的結果，低谷你自己的能力。你比你自己想象中要好。”——T. 哈維·?？?/p>

40“Wouldn‘t it be powerful if you fell in love with yourself so deeply that you would do just about anything if you knew it would make you happy? This is precisely how much life loves you and wants you to nurture yourself. The deeper you love yourself， the more the universe will affirm your worth. Then you can enjoy a lifelong love affair that brings you the richest fulfillment from inside out.” --Alan Cohen

40“深愛自己，你就會努力去做能夠讓自己開心的事情，難道你不會充滿力量嘛?生活就是以這樣的方式來愛你，來期盼你自己能夠修煉自己。愛自己越深，世界越能夠認同你的價值。然后你就能夠享受自己內(nèi)心充盈給一生帶來的愉悅感。”——艾倫·科漢

41“To anyone that ever told you you‘re no good ...They’re no better.” --Hayley Williams

41“致那些對你說過你不好的人…他們也好不到哪兒去。”——海莉·威廉姆斯

42“Always remember you are braver than you believe， stronger than you seem， and smarter than you think.” --Christopher Robin

42“始終相信你比你想象中的更勇敢，更強壯，更聰明。”——克里斯托夫·羅賓

43“You have no control over other people‘s taste， so focus on staying true to your own.。” --Tim Gunn

43“你無法控制別人的口味，所以保持真實的自己。”——提姆·岡恩

44“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” --Eleanor Roosevelt

44“未經(jīng)你的同意，任何人都沒有權利低看你。”——埃莉諾·羅斯福

45“The moment you doubt whether you can fly， you cease forever to be able to do it.” --J.M. Barrie

45“就在你置疑你自己是否能起飛的那一刻， 你已經(jīng)永遠無法起飛了。”——詹姆斯·馬修·巴利爵士

46“It‘s a dead-end street if you sit around waiting for someone else to tell you you’re OK.” --Michael Pitt

46“如果你閑坐在那里等待別人來告訴你你很好，你就走進了死胡同。”——邁克爾·皮特

47“I think that the power is the principle. The principle of moving forward， as though you have the confidence to move forward， eventually gives you confidence when you look back and see what you‘ve done.” --Robert Downey Jr.

47“我認為原則就是力量。當你回顧你所做的一切，前進的原則最終帶給你自信，就好像你有信心繼續(xù)向前。”——小羅伯特·唐尼

48“If you‘re presenting yourself with confidence， you can pull off pretty much anything.” --Katy Perry

48“如果你用自信來武裝自己，你可以戰(zhàn)勝一切。”——凱蒂·派瑞

49“Twenty years from now， you will be more disappointed by the things you didn‘t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sail. Explore. Dream. Discover.” --Mark Twain

49“20年后，比起為已經(jīng)做過的事情而感到失望，你會為你沒做的事情感到更為失望。所以丟開鎖鏈，駛出避風港。順著風。去探索。去做夢。去發(fā)現(xiàn)。”——馬克·吐溫

50“I‘ve finally stopped running away from myself. Who else is there better to be?” --Goldie Hawn

50“最后我不再逃避自己了。因為(除了自己)還能成為誰呢?”——戈爾迪·霍恩

51“Don‘t be satisfied with stories， how things have gone with others。 Unfold your own myth.” –Rumi

51“不要滿足于別人的故事。開啟你自己的神話吧。”——魯米

52“We avoid the things that we‘re afraid of because we think there will be dire consequences if we confront them。 But the truly dire consequences in our lives come from avoiding things that we need to learn about or discover.” --Shakti Gawain

52“我們總是逃避我們所害怕的事，因為我們認為一旦遇到，這些事將會帶來可怕的結果。但是逃避那些我們需要學習和發(fā)現(xiàn)的事情才是人生真正可怕的結果。”——莎克蒂·高文

53“Persons of high self-esteem are not driven to make themselves superior to others; they do not seek to prove their value by measuring themselves against a comparative standard。 Their joy is being who they are， not in being better than someone else.” --Nathaniel Branden

53“有無尚自尊的人不會為優(yōu)于別人而奮斗;他們不會通過競爭標準來證明自己的價值。他們的歡樂在于他們自己是誰，而別時比誰更好。”——納撒尼爾·布蘭登

54“Reflect upon your present blessings， of which every man has many--not on your past misfortunes， of which all men have some.” --Charles Dickens

54“思考當下的福祉，而非過去的不幸。福祉，每個人都有很多;不幸，每個人都有一些。”——查爾斯·狄更斯

55“Tension is who you think you should be， relaxation is who you are。” --Chinese proverb

55。有求皆苦，無欲則剛”——中國諺語